I am – without a doubt – my own worst critic. I can go from thinking that what I have written is golden, to doubting its quality and ripping it to shreds in seconds. Not feeling like you are good enough, or that you are original enough, or that you are skilled enough, or that you are fast enough, etc., etc. is a poison that will ultimately prevent you from reaching any of your goals. You’ll turn what you love to do into a chore and start to fear failure. Eventually, you stop trying and you stand still.
If anyone else can relate to what I’m talking about, you know what it’s like to hate yourself for standing still, but continue to stay where you are because you fear failing. I have one piece of advice for you – tell your brain to shut up! We allow our minds to take over and tell us we are wrong and not good enough, when we should be listening to our instincts and stop holding ourselves back.
One of the best things about writing a book with another writer is that you start to realize you DO have your own unique writing style, and that this is a GOOD thing 🙂 Julie has not only helped me to improve my writing skills over the years, by editing my work, increasing my vocabulary by introducing me to new words, and providing me with a few helpful tips, she has also helped me to realize that my style of writing is MY own. In fact, we don’t really write anything alike, which you will likely notice as you read our different posts.
A long time ago, way back in university, I once believed that her writing style was better than mine. Now I can happily tell you that I was wrong. Her style wasn’t better, it was different – it was hers.
So, what’s the point to this giant ramble? It’s to let you know that in my experience, writing skills can always be improved, but your creative style is a part of you. No one can teach it to you, you have to learn what it is for yourself. Don’t criticize or compare your creativity to someone else’s. Let it evolve and let others enjoy it.
When it comes to naming children, parents have a huge decision on their hands. Honestly, I’m not sure how they deal with the pressure. I don’t have any kids, but I have named dozens of people in the Book (I’ve decided to just call it “Book” for the purposes of this blog, since the real title is still top secret!).
I must say, coming up with the character names for individuals who are supposed to be from another world is a very challenging labour! Not only have I tried extremely hard to make sure that the names of the characters seem to suit them in some way – by the way they sound, for example – but I also want them to be appealing and pronounceable. If you think that’s not very difficult, then don’t forget the fact that I’m talking about a story taking place in another world. This means that I can’t just call someone “Roberta” or “Peter”.
If anyone has ever told you that there is nothing left on Earth that is original, they were right! If I string together any combination of sounds that seems to me is a highly unique but attractive name, the odds are that a simple Google search will pull up dozens of results from people (or their companies) who are halfway around the world, using that very same “unique” spelling. It takes forever to come up with just the right sounds that won’t already be found on this planet!
When all is said and done, I’ve had to accept the fact that there will be times when – despite having taken great care to come up with the most original name and spelling that I can – there will be someone far away who has already had that name for many years (their whole lives, in fact), and that there’s nothing I can do about it. I just hope that if they have the chance to read what I’ve written, they enjoy the way that their own special name has been used.
For those of you who don’t know me, let me start by introducing myself. My name is Amanda Giasson and I’m a creative writer. For now, that’s all you really need to know about me. You’ll likely discover more about me in time if you continue to follow this blog. On the other hand, if you choose not to follow this blog, at least I haven’t wasted your time with a bunch of facts about myself that you may find truly insignificant, such as my love for the colour green.
If you’ve read the first post of my best friend and fellow writer-in-crime, Julie Campbell (which I highly recommend you read if you haven’t done so already), you should have a good idea why we created this blog and what it’s all about. If you don’t know, well, I’ll keep the gist of what I feel you need to know, short and sweet 🙂
We’re writing a book, a series of books actually. What began as a playful back-and-forth of creative writing during a rather boring history class in university over a decade ago, has evolved throughout the years into an awesome story. Writing, developing and growing this story has become – for me specifically – a labour of love . Writing this story with Julie has definitely been one of the highlights of my life, and I really believe that what we’ve created should no longer just be something we enjoy, but should be shared, so that others may enjoy it, as well. After all, who doesn’t like a good story?
Although we have completed the rough draft of the first book, the actual finished product is still in the works. You’ll have to bear with us and have patience, but I’m confident you’ll find it worth the wait! Until the big day, we’ll continue to post updates about our writing progress and about anything else that we feel you may find interesting, useful – or at the very least – amusing.
I hope you’ll enjoy the journey with us 🙂
Bye for now!
P.S. For those of you wondering – Yes, the first book in our series does have a name. No, I’m not going to reveal it at this time 😉